How To Spice Up Your Sex Life: Tips & Tricks

An expectant-looking woman in red.

Boring sex is better than no sex at all, but if you find yourself thinking wistfully about the sensations you had the first time you got laid, then today’s blog post may help. We’ll give you an assortment of activities that might re-invigorate your interest in sex. Some of these ideas are easy and inexpensive, and others less so, but they might all help to put a little more boom in your next bang. 

How To Spice Up Your Sex Life With Communication

This is one of the best and cheapest ways to make sex more fun. 

Communication may help you understand each other’s wants and limits and can reduce the possibility of performance anxiety. Chatting about non-sexual things could lead to discussing sex, sex toys, and unspoken desires. You may discover something new about your partner to increase your fun in bed. 

Tip: Communication between couples can also help you resolve issues before they get too big to talk about and turn toxic. 

How To Spice Up Your Sex Life With A Schedule

The key to scheduled sex is the interval between your meetings and the sex acts you are expected to perform. This method combines suspense, anticipation, and abstinence-driven desire. The more days between romp sessions, the more desire you’ll build. So start with a week and see what pops up! 

This method requires discipline, and if you break the schedule, it may be less effective. 

Tip: Add a touch of fantasy to your scheduled meet-ups with gifts and role-playing.

How To Spice Up Your Sex Life With Exercise

Healthy exercise is good for almost anyone. It increases circulation, helps the body eliminate toxins and waste material, and makes you feel better. Studies show exercise can even make sex more fun. 

Some exercises for men and women are easy to share, like jogging, aerobics, weight lifting, swimming, and similar activities. Kegel balls, of course, are specific to vagina owners and may help with bladder control and increase sexual performance.

Men and women lifting weights.

Exercise can boost testosterone levels for men and women. Men may have more interest in sex and get better erections, and women may have an increased desire for sex and find climax easier to reach. 

Tip: Sex can burn calories but can’t take the place of regular exercise to lose weight or maintain health.

How To Spice Up Your Sex Life With Abstinence

If you’re lucky enough to get sex whenever you like, congratulations! But like having the same favorite dessert served every day will eventually get boring, having sex on demand–even with the hottest partner–may do the same thing. So simply stop. 

Taking a break from sex allows hormones connected to sexual arousal and satisfaction to increase naturally. You may boost this effect with supplements, vitamins, proper nutrition, and exercise. 

Tip: See how long you last before you can’t wait to put your hands on each other (or your favorite toy), and then try to beat it (the time without sex, not your meat).

How To Spice Up Your Sex Life With Role-Playing

Role-playing can make sex more fun by bringing out new and exciting character traits in you and your partner. Lots of couples find sexual role-playing to be just the thing for boosting their love life. 

Simple role-playing includes things like wearing sexy clothes or assuming the persona of a submissive or conquering warrior, for example. Complex role-playing might include costumes, scripts, and more, such as traveling to unique locations and flirting. And there are all sorts of sexy role-playing games that are in between. An online search will reveal many sexual role-playing techniques that may be perfect for your relationship.

Tip: Cap off role-playing by spending the night at a local hotel or motel.

How To Spice Up Your Sex Life With Audio/Visual Help

Many people find watching a sexy DVD or movie to be arousing, and there are lots of porn channels you can find that offer hot and steamy erotic displays. Most motels and hotels have pay-to-lay adult movies to stream on the TV in your room. You may find a TV, laptop, or phone with one of these movies to be just the thing to increase bedroom heat and make sex more fun. 

A couple watching TV.

Sexy comics and graphic novels can also work wonders. This kind of material has a way of stimulating the imagination and sitting in the brain, where it may work on a subconscious level to increase desire. 

Tip: A trip to an adult bookstore in a metropolitan area can be fun, and it’s a great way to combine travel to an “exotic location” with sex. 

How To Spice Up Your Sex Life With VSekreets

VSekreets has all the fuel you need to fire up your love life! Our all-inclusive toy selection offers wild fantasy and intense sensations that can introduce new heights of orgasmic potential to you and your partner. We have premium vibrators, fantastic silicone dildos, butt plugs, male masturbators, and more! So buy a toy today and get ready to explode between the sheets. Our products are less expensive than travel or a night out, and they’ll never disappoint you. Wonder no more about how to spice up your sex life or make it more fun. VSekreets toys are here! 

Meet the Author

VSekreets has been an online adult toys store for both men and women for over a decade and an expert in their industry. Selling high-tech adult toys at affordable prices, they excel at designing body-safe products made of fine, silicone materials with modern construction and even created patented molds for their products. As a leader in their industry, they offer educational advice on sexual wellness and tips for intimate experiences.